Sometimes a breakup can be a good thing. That’s especially true if we’re in a relationship that isn’t quite right for us. But it isn’t always easy to spot the subtle signs which might suggest that our partners aren’t truly in love with us!

To help you get some clarity on this, here are some common signs that your partner is not truly in love with you!

1. THEY DON’T EVER PRIORITIZE YOU.
They don’t ever try to prioritize you in your everyday life. They don’t ever make it a point to make you feel like you are the most influential person to them at all. It is almost as if you always have to come second after something else. It is either they are going to prioritize their friends, job, or even there own family over you every single time.

2. THEY NEVER TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT.
Respect is something that should come naturally to your partner whenever the two of you together. It is not as if they don’t care about your dignity. They will always say mean things to you in order to put you down. They will always take advantage of your time and your patience. They make you feel for granted. They always use you as a commodity more than as an actual human being or partner.

3. THEY DON’T APOLOGIZE TO YOU WHEN THEY SCREW UP OR HURT YOU.
They are not even perfect in the relationship, but they will never admit it. They will never willingly on their own accept that they made a mistake or their shortcomings. It is as if their pride won’t allow them to be let go in favor of the relationship. They don’t even try to apologize to you whenever they screw up. They are just okay like that with disappointing you and making you feel bad.

6. THEY DON’T EXPRESS ANY INTEREST AT ALL IN YOUR LIFE.
They do not try to express any sincere interest in your life at all. They do not ask you much about the things that you might be dealing with at work. They do not ask you or border about the things that you are most passionate about. They do not try to participate in any of your most favorite hobbies.

7. THEY DO NOT OPEN UP THINGS TO YOU DEEPLY.
They do not try to open up to you on any intimate capacity. It is as if they are completely okay that way by just keeping you at a distance. They will not want to open up to you and make it seem like they are comfortable with doing so to you. You will always have to force the information out of them. They will never really make you feel as if they trust you enough.

8. THEY DO NOT STAY MINDFUL OF ANY OF YOUR NEEDS.